Becoming Creative

This new series of posts is intended to help teachers, parents and children integrate more creativity into thier lives and learning.  The goal is to give you reasons to pursue a path of creativity for yourself so that you are better equipped to pass these traits on to your students and children.

We are going to begin by taking a short journey.  As you read, let your mind create the world presented.

I want you to use your imagination to put yourself in someone else’s place. Imagine you are an educator in a regular classroom with gifted student clusters, the year is half over, the winter is getting long, there have been too many cold days, it is gray and dark outside most everyday.

Your classroom has two gifted kids that are getting disruptive, Tim has troubles at home with his parents, who are going through a divorce and he tends to get put in the middle of their conflicts, Charlie gets pressured at home by his parents to get high grades – both of them are heading down the slippery slope of underachievement. They are distracted in their work and distracting to others. Nothing you try seems to work to get them under control or to help them. They are beginning to take down another gifted student, Sam, who is highly sensitive and is exhibiting nervousness more often. The disruptions are beginning to affect the entire class, and you.

The parents of the Charlie – the ones that put a lot of pressure on their child – have come to you repeatedly insisting that you do something to make his slipping grades improve. They claim no responsibility to help, they view that as your job.

The gifted coordinator provides some assistance, but her position has been reduced and barely has time enough to visit all the schools. The pull-out programs were cut out of the budget and it is up to you to provide the gifted kids with all they need to survive and thrive. In addition, you still have the rest of the class with diverse needs to attend to.

Your own life has been in transition. You have recently ended a significant relationship and you are trying to help your own child with her struggles. You have been experiencing health issues and there seems to be no time for friends or interests of your own.  You are really feeling the stress. You are overwhelmed, overworked, and under pressure to turn it around.

One day, you are trying to lead a creative thinking and problem solving unit with the gifted cluster. You barely have enough energy to deliver the lesson, much less try to keep their attention and manage behavior. As you attempt to get through the lesson, the irony hits you -

You THINK to yourself – I am trying to teach these kids to be creative and think of creative solutions to problems, BUT I can barely make it through this lesson. What am I going to do now?

This scenaio is among typical circumstances that can make us feel fenced in.

We all have bad days, pressures, budget cuts and times when the kids seem to need extra attention. And, times when our own lives need extra attention and some creative problem-solving.

How do we FENCE OURSELVES IN?

What is our response to difficult situations and challenges in life? Do you feel the contraction of energy? The feelings of being trapped, with no way out? The feeling of wanting to run away and hide?

This may often be our first reaction. But hopefully, you feel the instinct to find solutions when you become challenged.

Let’s continue with our scenario.

Something sparked inside as you read a creative thinking workbook. You knew you had to do something. You searched through the resources you had gathered over the past couple years from workshops and conferences, and searched on websites.

Then . . .you found what you needed.

You have found someone to be a mentor and a coach. This person is someone who will help you with your personal and professional goals, give you ideas, resources, and challenges to assist you in becoming more satisfied in your life and in your career. Your mentor will challenge you to discover your talents and strengths, inspire you to explore, stimulate your creativity to discover new possibilities, help you find ways to invigorate your energy and inspire hope and optimism in the future.

This mentor is very busy, and has a lot of clients – sometimes you attend classes with others, sometimes you have one-on-one time. But even though the time you have with them may be limited, you have found that the benefit and value of that time is immeasurable.

When your mentor speaks to the group, you feel encouraged and inspired because they seem to speak from a place of compassion and wisdom.

Your mentor is someone who listens to you with their full attention, is unhurried when you talk, is just as concerned about your emotional needs as your professional goals. Most of all, you feel you can trust your mentor.

After working with your mentor for a few months, you feel lighter and more grounded at the same time. You are happier and more patient with others. You feel more relaxed without the previous feelings of agitation, anxiety, and nervousness that arose when trying to cope with the never-ending challenges, pressures and stresses. You realize that other people are there to help and support you, you just didn’t realize how much, until your mentor showed you ways to notice.

Life is more meaningful, your inner purpose is clearer, your life is on a self-correcting path. Your relationships have improved, your career is looking brighter, and most of all you are hopeful, optimistic and resilient to the changes that come your way.

Your mentor did not do the work for you. They did not change your life circumstances. They guided you on a path of new perspectives and new possibilities.

The mentor was mindfully attentive to the your needs. They modeled resourcefulness and adaptability by showing you how to get out of her “stuck” ideas, feeling, beliefs and thoughts.

This is the essence of creative thinking. And, in order to teach students creative thinking, it is important to model it for them so they can experience it in action.

True creative thinking does not just produce a product or new solutions to a problem,
true creative thinking affects your entire mind, emotion, will and relationships.

You cannot think your way to becoming more creative. You have to allow space for it to arise. You must embrace reflective skills in your life, and in the classroom. You have to develop a trust in the creative process. You need patience and to practice creativity over time.  You will be pleasantly surprised with the results.

When you get on the path of creativity development and begin to practice it, you feel creative thinking, you experience creative thinking, you become the embodiment of creative energy which opens a channel for creativity to come in to your life.

When this happens- you are motivating to other people, your students experience the change, they become your partners and collaborators in creativity. They imitate you, give you ideas, and begin their own creative change.

“You’re NOT Normal!”

…there is a general ambivalence in our schools and in society about gifted children, and they are often criticized for the very things that make them what they are (sensitive, intense, etc.).  Both at home and at school, they hear, “You’re too sensitive! You’re too intense!  You have a strange sense of humor! Do you always have to be creative?  Why do you have to question every rule?”  What is a child to make of criticisms like these?  He may believe these messages and decide that something is wrong with him.     Webb, et. al. (2007)  A Parent’s Guide to Gifted Children.

You may appreciate your gifted child’s advanced abilities, but it can be difficult and challenging to have a child that is always outside the norm.  Parenting books describing “normal” behavior for most children usually don’t fit gifted children.  They seem to be on a developmental path all their own.  Many gifted children reach developmental milestones much earlier than most children.  They may have one or more subjects in school that they are learning much faster than those in the middle of the learning curve.  Gifted children often process logical thinking and abstract ideas at a younger age.  And, they react to stimuli with more sensitivity.

To help and support a gifted child, it is vitally important to realize that they ARE thoroughly different, they are not just smarter than other kids.  Next, you must understand HOW they are different, because gifted children are vastly different from each other as well.

Oftentimes a gifted child is far above the normal development curve in one or more areas.  If you are to follow traditional advice in parenting books, you will not find help in the section that speaks to your child’s chronological age.  Your child may be ahead in some academic areas, at grade level in others and maybe behind in social and emotional development.  This is the definition of asynchonous development.

If you seek help from educators who are not experienced with giftedness, they may say,

 ”Your child is a child first, and the giftedness is secondary and only a part of him.”  But the giftedness is integral to the child; it affects everything he thinks, feels, says, and does.  It is a key to who he is. A Parent’s Guide to Gifted Children, James T. Webb, Ph.D., et.al., (2007).

You cannot separate out the gifted aspects of your child.   They are not a child with gifted tendencies, they ARE a gifted child with a complex set of unique traits and special needs.  All of which do not fit neatly into the normal development curve.  

Once you fully accept that your child is gifted and that they will always be unique, you can see them for the wonderful, amazing child that they are.  Together, you can embark on a journey of self-discovery and learning together.


Creativity Projects

Video-production

My kids are writing and producing a video of an advertisement for their favorite toys. They get very excited about this. It was much easier to get my son to write about his Nerf Blaster and how wonderful it is, than to do some of the other writing exercises in their textbook. Writing comes easier, even when a few drafts are needed. They have learned a lot about what commercials are designed to do, how to stage the actions, write the script and direct the video shots. And, it was done with enthusiasm and increasingly more creativity as we went through several versions. I just had to manage my own feelings of the inevitable chaos (from my perspective) when the toys took over our sessions. I have plans to use video more in the future for science and research projects.

Night Story Telling

One of the best creative projects we have ever taken on was started as a way for my kids to calm down before bed. We tell stories at bedtime. When we started, about two years ago, we told stories about what different animals may do with their day. Anything we wanted to share. No big deal, but a chance for my kids to create stories about animals – because that is what they were interested in. It was cute to hear them, sometimes they repeated themselves over and over, sometimes the animals were irritating, but it was a fun time for us together.

A few months into this routine, I started creating the character of Brownie the Bear, who was a marshmallow-eating bear, lived in the woods and stole marshmallows from all the campers. They absolutely loved this character, and now we have been talking about Brownie and all of his friends in the woods for well over a year. The campers loved Brownie so much that they now leave marshmallows for him and his friends to take and the animals leave presents for the campers in return.

He has had lots of adventures,  developed many friendships, the animal community has regular celebrations, they create art from the marshmallows, play tricks on each other and several animals with special powers go to a school of Hogwart’s for animals. In the autumn, the animals celebrate their harvest season of collecting marshmallows from the campers with a giant bonfire to roast them. They keep the marshmallows deep in caves to keep them fresh for the entire winter. They take the extras, dye them different colors, cut off one slice to get them sticky and stick them to the cave walls to make big beautiful mosaics.

Through this storytelling process, I have been able to take our writing lessons and make them come alive, learning what makes a story compelling. They have found toy animals to play the parts, created props and a stage to act out the scenes.

And, I have also used some of the characters in these stories to re-create some of their real-life events with friends or difficult situations to discuss what the animals would do in similar situations. We discuss how they would feel, what they would do and what their options are.  It is easier to discuss because they can externalize the situations using characters they know well and really care about.

[excerpt from my Minnesota Council for the Gifted and Talented State Conference presentation: Don't Fence Me In - Mastery, Creativity, and Adventure in the Home Education of Bright Children]

What is Living With Live Wires?

What is Living With Live Wires?

It is an Exploration…

-into the lives of sensitive & intense children who are wired differently, who think in unique ways, who thrive on creativity and the pursuit of knowledge.
-into the lives of sensitive & intense parents who have experienced personal differences their entire lives, but were never quite sure why and still may be searching for understanding.
-into the stories we tell ourselves and our children about our differences. The stories that we tell that shape our life experiences and determine our success and happiness.
-into the actualization of life as a path of mastery, creativity and adventure, for our children, for ourselves, and for our families.

Together. . .

-We can explore our unique world from different angles and perspectives.
-We can create new meanings to the experience of being bright, creative adults, and living in a family with intense and sensitive members.
-We can find our place by creating the progressive family culture.

A Five-Minute Intelligence Test for Kids

The main ideas of a recent article:

“But the two tasks I’ve described are a real test for children, developed in Switzerland. They are phenomenally accurate at predicting full-scale intelligence scores. On 5- and 6-year-old kids, this simple test is virtually synonymous with a 90-minute intelligence test of their full cognitive capacities; the two tests have a 99 percent correlation. It turns out that kindergartners who are really good at sorting line length and relative weight are the same kids who score highly on tests of conceptual reasoning, memory, and attention. Whatever the neurobiological advantage is, it’s driving performance on both tests?at least at that age.

“This shines a bright light on testing of children’s intelligence, and I’m of two minds about it?two minds that I can’t reconcile. On one hand, it reveals just how premature it is to screen 5- and 6-year-olds for entrance to private schools and gifted programs.

“Conclusion: the tests work for measuring current intelligence. But it’s a bad bet, and a bad investment, if we’re counting on any test to predict a young child’s future.”

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